backscratch

Trade help informally

Backscratch refers to mutual favor-trading—you help me, I help you.

The image is of two people scratching each other's backs where they can't reach themselves.

Often appears as backscratching: There's a lot of backscratching going on between lobbyists and legislators.

The literal sense—scratching someone's back—is less common than the figurative.

reciprocity

favor

Kind act or preference

tit for tat · give and take · trade-off · barter · return · repayment · cooperation · symbiosis · logrolling · nepotism

itch

relief

Easing of distress

prickle · rash · hives · mosquito bite · eczema · psoriasis · dermatitis · allergy · redness · inflammation

tool

telescopic

Extending via nested tubes

plastic · handheld · claw · reach · prong · massage · therapeutic · self-care · hygiene · gadget

gesture

signaling

Conveying information nonverbally

indicate · mime · signal · motion · pantomime · cue

Opposites
reciprocal exchange vs. selfless giving

backscratchaltruism

Prioritizing others' wellbeing

charity · philanthropy · selflessness · magnanimity · benevolence

mutual benefit vs. one-sided harm

backscratchbackstab

Betray someone's trust

betray · double-cross · undermine · sabotage · sell out

corrupt favoritism vs. merit-based fairness

backscratchmeritocracy

Advancement through demonstrated ability

fair dealing · impartiality · transparency · even-handed · by the book

Family

backscratcher, backscratches, backscratchers, backscratching

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G