backscratching

Trading helpful gestures

Backscratching is the exchange of favors, especially in politics or business—you help me, I'll help you.

The metaphor comes from the literal act: scratching someone's back feels good but requires another person to reach.

The bill passed through backscratching between committee members.

The related expression is you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours.

reciprocity

favors

Preferences or courtesies

networking · corruption · cronyism · patronage · nepotism · collusion · kickbacks · deal-making · politics · lobbying

physical

itch

Urge to scratch

  • reliefEasing of distress
  • nailsMetal fasteners, finger coverings
  • reachExtend to touch

bamboo · wooden · massage · back · skin · rake · bristles · extendable · handheld · grooming

Categories
Opposites
motivation/self-interest

backscratchingaltruism

Prioritizing others' wellbeing

selflessness · generosity · magnanimity · philanthropy · benevolence

ethical conduct

backscratchingmeritocracy

Advancement through demonstrated ability

impartiality · integrity · transparency · incorruptibility · even-handedness

relational dynamics

backscratchingantagonism

Active opposition or hostility

backstabbing · betrayal · hostility · opposition · sabotage

Family

scratch, scratchy, scratching, scratched, scratches, backstabbing, backscratcher, unscratched, scratcher

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G