back-patting

Self-congratulatory gesture exchange

Back-patting is self-congratulation or mutual praise, often excessive or unearned.

The image is of people literally patting each other on the back in approval.

It typically carries a dismissive tone, suggesting the praise is more about feeling good than recognizing genuine achievement: The meeting devolved into back-patting rather than addressing the problems.

praise

congratulatory

Expressing praise for success

kudos · accolades · applause · commendation · validation · affirmation · stroking · recognition · appreciation · tributes

political

cronyism

Favoring friends in appointments

lobbying · donor · campaign · endorsement · bipartisan · committee · caucus · glad-handing · schmoozing · dealmaking

corporate

team-building

Fostering group cohesion

endorsements · networking · LinkedIn · self-promotion · branding · publicity · spin · optics · messaging · achievements

Opposites
evaluation valence

back-pattingcriticism

Judgment of faults

condemnation · censure · blame · reproach · rebuke

self-assessment stance

back-pattingself-criticism

Judging one's own failings

self-flagellation · self-deprecation · self-doubt · humility · modesty

sincerity of recognition

back-pattingconstructive criticism

Fault-finding aimed at improvement

tough love

Family

back, patting, backs, backed, backing, backside, backward, backwards, pats

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