IRL

Not through screens

IRL is internet shorthand for "in real life," distinguishing physical-world experiences from online or virtual ones: We'd been chatting for months before we finally met IRL.

The term emerged from early internet culture, where the boundary between digital and physical spaces needed marking.

It now appears in casual speech and texting beyond its origins: She's funnier IRL than in her posts. (Lowercase irl is sometimes seen in very casual usage.)

physical

face-to-face

Direct personal encounter

meetup · meatspace · physical · corporeal · embodied · presence · handshake · gathering · hangout · unmediated

authenticity

genuine

Truly what it claims

sincere · true · actual · candid · transparent · unedited · spontaneous · natural · vulnerable · human

slang

LOL

Internet amusement abbreviation

  • OMGTexted exclamation of shock
  • BRBTexted temporary departure
  • AFKOnline absence indicator

IMO · NSFW · DM · FOMO · SMH · NVM · FTW · GOAT · TL;DR · ICYMI

contrast

virtual

Existing in effect, not fact

avatar · screen · metaverse · simulation · VR · gaming · social media · streaming · remote · telecommuting

streamer

stream

Steady continuous flow

meet-and-greet · parasocial · subscriber · viewer · chat · panel · signing · expo · fandom · creator

Categories
Opposites
reality status

IRLonline

Network-connected state

virtual · digital · in-game · on the internet · virtually

authenticity perception

IRLfake

Not the real thing

curated · filtered · catfishing · performative · staged

Family

real, reals

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G