stew in one's own juice

Suffer unaided consequences

To stew in one's own juice is to suffer the consequences of one's own actions or choices, especially when others refuse to help or intervene.

The image is of someone cooking in their self-created misery: He got himself into this mess—let him stew in his own juice.

Often used when someone deliberately withholds assistance to let another experience the full weight of their situation.

Related

guilt · remorse · boil over · frustration · eat humble pie · bitterness · pay the piper · resentment · embarrassment · cry over spilt milk · shame · disappointment · add fuel to the fire · wallow · stir the pot · pour oil on troubled waters · self-reflection · sleep on it

Opposites
intervention vs. abandonment

stew in one's own juicebail out

Rescue from trouble

come to the rescue · rescue · lend a hand · pull out of the fire · help out

responsibility for consequences

stew in one's own juicelet off the hook

make whole · absolve · cut some slack · forgive and forget · wipe the slate clean

accountability vs. rescue

stew in one's own juicelet off the hook

spare the rod · cover for · cushion the blow · coddle · enable

Family

stews, stewed, stewing, owning, owners, juice, juices, juiced, juicing

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G