spare the rod

Don't discipline physically

Spare the rod is a shortened form of the proverb "spare the rod, spoil the child," which holds that children who are not physically disciplined will become spoiled or poorly behaved.

The rod refers to a stick or switch used for corporal punishment.

People invoke the phrase either to advocate for strict discipline or, increasingly, to criticize such views as outdated.

He was raised by parents who didn't believe in sparing the rod.

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Opposites
disciplinary approach

spare the rodcorporal punishment

Inflicting pain as penalty

strict discipline · tough love · zero tolerance · physical punishment · authoritarian parenting

parenting philosophy

spare the rodauthoritarian parenting

Rigid, controlling child-rearing approach

strict parenting · tiger parenting · obedience training · my way or the highway

parental authority philosophy

spare the rodauthoritarian parenting

Rigid, controlling child-rearing approach

tiger parenting · helicopter parenting · micromanagement · overcontrol

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG