stir the pot

Provoke ongoing conflict

To stir the pot is to provoke controversy or conflict, often by introducing divisive topics or agitating existing tensions.

The image is of stirring a pot to keep its contents from settling: She loves to stir the pot at family dinners by bringing up politics.

Someone who stirs the pot may do so for entertainment, to expose hidden disagreements, or simply out of mischief.

Opposites
conflict instigation

stir the potmake peace

Resolve conflict between parties

peacemaking · pour oil on troubled waters · keep the peace · mediate · reconcile

social disruption vs. stability

stir the potkeep the peace

Prevent discord or conflict

let sleeping dogs lie · leave well enough alone · calm the waters · pour oil on troubled waters · steady the ship

attention-seeking vs. discretion

stir the potmind one's own business

Refrain from prying

keep quiet · bite one's tongue · hold one's peace · keep a low profile · look the other way

Family

stir, pot, stirring, pots, pottery, stirred, stirs, potter, potting

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G