cushion the blow

Make it gentler

To cushion the blow is to lessen the impact of bad news or an unpleasant situation: She tried to cushion the blow by emphasizing what he'd done well before delivering the criticism.

The metaphor comes from padding that absorbs physical impact—something that softens the blow doesn't eliminate it but makes it easier to bear.

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soothe · alleviate · take the edge off · soften · empathize · console · reassure · protect · safeguard · buffer · safety net · break the news · sugar coat · gentle reminder · anticipate · support · pillow · calm

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Opposites
impact mitigation

cushion the blowmake matters worse

Intensify an existing problem

add insult to injury · rub salt in the wound · twist the knife · exacerbate · aggravate

emotional/psychological preparation

cushion the blowdrop a bombshell

Announce startling information unexpectedly

blindside · not mince words · lay it on the line · tell it like it is · pull no punches

Family

cushion, cushions, cushioned, cushioning, blow, blows, blown, blowing, blower

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G