split the difference

Find middle ground

Split the difference means to compromise by settling on an amount halfway between two positions, typically in a negotiation over price or terms.

If one person offers $100 and another asks for $200, splitting the difference means agreeing on $150.

The phrase extends beyond money to any situation where parties meet in the middle: We couldn't agree on a restaurant, so we split the difference and ordered takeout.

Opposites
negotiation outcome distribution

split the differencewinner-take-all

Only champion receives reward

all or nothing · winner takes all · all-or-nothing · take it or leave it · total victory

negotiating stance

split the differencehold firm

Maintain one's position

stand one's ground · dig in · hardball · play hardball · hold the line

conflict resolution method

split the differencedeadlock

Mutual blocking, no progress

stalemate · walk away · litigate · fight it out · escalate

Family

split, splits, splitting, splitter, difference, differences, different, differently, differ

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G