reality check

Dose of truth

A reality check is a moment of confronting actual circumstances rather than assumptions or wishful thinking.

Someone might need a reality check when their plans ignore obvious obstacles: His friends gave him a reality check about his chances of making the team.

The phrase often implies a correction—bringing someone back down to earth.

grounding

wake-up call

Jolt into awareness

moment of clarity · snap out of it · facing facts · brutal honesty · straight talk · no-nonsense · unvarnished truth · tough love · candor

verification

cross-reference

Notation pointing elsewhere

evidence · due diligence · vetting · scrutiny · audit · review · assessment · evaluation · testing · examination

confrontation

intervention

Purposeful involvement to change course

honest conversation · pushback · holding accountable · setting straight

Categories
Opposites
epistemic grounding

reality checkself-deception

Convincing yourself of falsehoods

delusion · wishful thinking · fantasy · denial · illusion

psychological function

reality checkdenial

Refusal to accept reality

self-deception · delusion · willful ignorance · head in the sand · self-delusion

social/communicative function

reality checkenabling

Making something feasible

flattery · blowing smoke · ego stroking · sugarcoating

Family

check, real, reality, checkup, checker

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G