self-delusion

Lying to yourself

Self-delusion is the act of deceiving oneself, believing something false because the truth is uncomfortable or threatening.

Unlike being deceived by others, self-delusion involves an unconscious conspiracy against one's own better judgment: His confidence was pure self-delusion—everyone could see he was failing.

The term often implies willful blindness to evidence that contradicts cherished beliefs.

ego

narcissism

Excessive admiration of oneself

vanity · egocentrism · conceit · megalomania · overestimation

denial

disavowal

Rejection of connection

disregard · dismissal · avoidance · evasion · blindness · suppression · negation · unseeing

cognition

rationalization

Inventing acceptable motives afterward

misbelief · compartmentalization

fantasy

daydream

Conscious fantasy while awake

unreality · fiction · invention · romanticizing · idealization

Categories
Opposites
honesty with oneself

self-delusionself-awareness

Insight into one's psyche

self-knowledge · self-understanding · introspection · self-examination · self-reflection

source of deception

self-delusionmanipulation

Underhanded control of others

fraud · gaslighting · propaganda · disinformation · brainwashing

cognitive clarity

self-delusionlucidity

Clearness of mind

clear-sightedness · realism · rationality · objectivity · level-headedness

Family

self, illusion, elusive, delusion, delude, illusory, deluded, illusionist, selfhood

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