lend an ear

Hear someone out

To lend an ear is to listen attentively, especially to someone's problems or concerns: Could you lend an ear for a minute? I need advice.

The phrase suggests offering sympathetic attention rather than mere hearing.

Sometimes elaborated as lend a sympathetic ear or lend a listening ear.

attentive

listen

Perceive sound attentively

  • hearPerceive by ear
  • heedGive careful attention
  • focusConcentrated attention point

concentrate · tune in · attend · perceive · receptive · alert · mindful · intent · engrossed · rapt

empathetic

compassionate

Showing concern for sufferers

tender · warmhearted · considerate · caring · gentle · sensitive · concerned · feeling · moved · touched

counseling

advisor

One who gives guidance

consultant · mediator · facilitator · coach · sounding board · guidance · counsel · trusted friend · confessor · advice

supportive

encouraging

Giving confidence or hope

soothing · affirming · validating · nonjudgmental · accepting · caring · trustworthy · responsive · heartening · uplifting

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Opposites
attentiveness

lend an eartune out

Deliberately stop attending

ignore · turn a deaf ear · zone out · block out · disregard

interpersonal responsiveness

lend an eardismiss

Send away or reject

brush off · give the cold shoulder · shut out · blow off · rebuff

Family

ear, lend, loan, ears, listener, earring, lending, lends, eared

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G