kept man

Financially supported boyfriend

A kept man is a man financially supported by a woman, typically in exchange for companionship or sexual availability.

The term implies he contributes little beyond his presence in the relationship: He lived as her kept man for years, spending her money while she worked.

The phrase carries connotations of idleness and dependence, sometimes with a hint of scandal.

stigma

sugar baby

Sponsored romantic companion

judgment · exploitation · double standards · social dynamics · power imbalance · hypergamy · societal pressure · prejudice · gender bias · disapproval

dependency

househusband

Man running domestic affairs

sponsored · recipient · dependent · supported · subsidized · unemployed · idle · leisured · nonworking · subordinate

gender

trophy husband

Spouse valued for appearance

masculinity · nontraditional · gender norms · patriarchy · feminism · ego · traditional roles · power dynamics · submissive · domestic

lifestyle

affluence

Abundance of money

leisure · extravagance · comfort · penthouse · sports car · champagne · fine dining · vacations · shopping · spa

benefactor

sugar daddy

Wealthy older romantic benefactor

financier · backer · provider · breadwinner · patroness · older woman · cougar · heiress · socialite · benefactress

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Opposites
financial independence

kept manbreadwinner

Primary household earner

sugar daddy · provider · self-made man · sugar mama · wage earner

relationship role/power dynamic

kept mansugar daddy

Wealthy older romantic benefactor

benefactor · patron · head of household · keeper · meal ticket

gender role reversal

kept mankept woman

Supported female companion

mistress · trophy wife · sugar baby · concubine

Family

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