guilt trips

Shame-based persuasion

Guilt trips are attempts to make someone feel guilty in order to influence their behavior.

The phrase often implies manipulation—using guilt as leverage rather than making a direct request: My mother is always laying guilt trips on me about not visiting enough.

To guilt-trip someone is to apply this tactic.

Opposites
communication style

guilt tripsclear communication

Unambiguous exchange of ideas

assertive communication · open communication

emotional effect

guilt tripsencouragement

Support spurring continued effort

affirmation · positive reinforcement · praise · validation · reassurance

interpersonal approach

guilt tripsno strings attached

Without obligations or conditions

letting go · unconditional love · acceptance · non-attachment · giving space

Family

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Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G