assertive communication

Direct, respectful speaking

Assertive communication is expressing thoughts, feelings, and needs directly and honestly while respecting others.

It occupies middle ground between passive communication (not speaking up) and aggressive communication (dominating or dismissing others).

The term appears frequently in workplace training and therapy contexts: We practiced assertive communication techniques in couples counseling.

Related

self-esteem · open-ended questions · negotiation · finding common ground · paraphrasing · directness · saying no · mutual respect · empathy · confidence · mediation · social skills · de-escalation · self-regulation · problem-solving · empowerment · personal boundaries · standing your ground

Opposites
directness and self-advocacy

assertive communicationpassivity

State of non-resistance

indirect communication · people-pleasing · conflict avoidance · silence · hinting

respect for boundaries

assertive communicationaggression

Hostile or attacking behavior

bullying · verbal aggression · intimidation · verbal abuse · coercion

emotional regulation

assertive communicationyelling

Vocalization at maximum volume

screaming · ranting · stonewalling · shutting down · lashing out

Family

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Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Rated G