grinning and bearing it

Tolerating with composure

Grinning and bearing it means enduring something unpleasant while maintaining a cheerful or stoic outward appearance.

The phrase suggests suffering in silence rather than complaining, putting on a brave face despite discomfort or frustration: The service was terrible, but we just grinned and bore it.

Often used with resignation: There's nothing to do but grin and bear it.

Related

inner strength · stoicism · mental toughness · patience · grit · acceptance · self-control · fatalism · rolling with the punches · taking it in stride · sucking it up · adaptability · restraint · politeness · stiff upper lip · putting on a brave face · fake smile · perseverance

Opposites
emotional expression

grinning and bearing itventing

Releasing emotion verbally

wearing one's heart on one's sleeve · making a scene · breaking down · throwing a tantrum · falling apart

response to adversity

grinning and bearing itfighting back

Opposing when attacked

pushing back · walking away · quitting · rebelling · resisting

communication strategy

grinning and bearing itspeaking up

Voicing your thoughts

airing grievances · protesting · griping · grumbling · whining

Family

grinned, grinning, bearing, bearer, unbearable, forbear, forbearance

Familiarity
Top 200,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G