sucking it up

Tolerating without complaint

Sucking it up means accepting something unpleasant without complaint—enduring discomfort, disappointment, or hardship rather than protesting or seeking accommodation.

The phrase often appears as advice or self-talk: I didn't want to work the holiday shift, but I sucked it up.

It implies stoic acceptance, sometimes with a suggestion that complaining would be weak or futile.

Related

grin and bear it · professionalism · taking one for the team · stamina · tenacity · tough it out · obligation · acceptance · sacrifice · humility · effort · tolerance · composure · keeping it together · persistence · soldiering on · self-control · adaptability

Opposites
emotional expression vs. suppression

sucking it upventing

Releasing emotion verbally

breaking down · airing grievances · falling apart · complaining · whining

perseverance vs. surrender

sucking it upquitting

Ceasing an activity

giving up · throwing in the towel · walking away · bailing out · calling it quits

stoic acceptance vs. active resistance

sucking it uppushing back

Exerting opposing force

fighting back · protesting · raising hell · rebelling · complaining

Family

suck, sucks, sucked, sucker, suckers, sucking, suction, upping

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G