putting on a brave face

Hiding inner turmoil

Putting on a brave face means concealing distress, fear, or disappointment behind an appearance of composure or cheerfulness.

The phrase suggests effort—the bravery is performed rather than felt: She put on a brave face at the funeral, but collapsed when she got home.

Sometimes used with criticism implied: the facade prevents honest acknowledgment of difficulty.

Related

perseverance · emotional labor · denial · inner strength · concealment · rationalization · grit · soldier on · compartmentalization · reassurance · composure · masking · holding back tears · stiff upper lip · chin up · suppression · keeping it together · self-soothing

Opposites
emotional authenticity

putting on a brave faceemotional honesty

Truthful expression of feelings

wearing one's heart on one's sleeve · baring one's soul · unmasking · unguarded

emotional vulnerability

putting on a brave facebreaking down

Stopping working properly

falling apart · losing it · crumbling · sobbing · bursting into tears

coping strategy

putting on a brave faceasking for help

admitting defeat · throwing in the towel · venting

Family

putting, brave, braver, bravest, bravely, bravery, bravado

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G