family shame

Clan's dark secret

Family shame is disgrace that reflects on an entire family rather than just the individual who caused it.

The concept is stronger in cultures where family honor is collective—one member's failure, scandal, or misconduct taints everyone: His arrest brought family shame that lasted for generations.

A person can also be called the family shame: Uncle Lou was the family shame—we didn't talk about him.

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humiliation · embarrassment · skeleton in the closet · secret · whispers · hush hush · reputation · save face · ancestors · legacy · disown · cast out · outcast · black sheep · taboo · silence · guilt · honor

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Opposites
honor/reputation

family shamefamily honor

Collective reputation of relatives

point of pride · badge of honor · family legacy · noble heritage · crowning glory

emotional valence

family shamefamily blessing

Favor invoked upon kin

badge of honor · bragging rights · point of pride · family celebration · crowning glory

social concealment vs. display

family shamebragging rights

Informal claim to superiority

calling card · heirloom

Family

family, shame, families, familial, familiar, familiarity, familiarize, shamed, shaming

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG