conciliatorily

With soothing intent

In a manner intended to placate or win over someone who is hostile or upset.

The adverb modifies actions meant to restore goodwill: He spoke conciliatorily, hoping to defuse the argument.

The word is awkward enough that speakers often reach for alternatives like "in a conciliatory way."

appeasement

placate

Lessen someone's anger

assuage · propitiate · defuse · calm · soften · gentle · alleviate · mitigate · quell · subdue

reconciliation

amends

Compensation for wrongdoing

rapprochement · reunion · reparation · resolution · truce · pacification · renewal · mending · bridge-building · apology

diplomacy

tactful

Socially sensitive and careful

intermediary · go-between · ambassador · envoy · facilitator · arbitrator · peacemaker · statesman · emissary · liaison

peacemaking

harmony

Agreement or musical blend

nonviolence · pacifism · coexistence · goodwill · peaceable · detente · peacekeeper · dove · reconciler · conflict-resolution

compromise

negotiation

Discussion seeking mutual accord

bargaining · trade-off · accord · middle-ground · give-and-take · arrangement · terms · adjustment · flexibility · moderation

Opposites
interpersonal approach

conciliatorilyantagonistically

In an opposing manner

hostilely · belligerently · aggressively · combatively · provocatively

flexibility in stance

conciliatorilystubbornly

With inflexible determination

inflexibly · intransigently · obstinately · uncompromisingly · rigidly

Family

reconcile, reconciliation, conciliate, conciliation, conciliator, conciliatory, irreconcilable, reconcilable, reconciling

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G