calling shots

Directing the action

Calling shots means making the decisions or being in charge.

The phrase comes from billiards, where players must announce which ball will go into which pocket before shooting.

Someone who calls the shots has the authority or power in a situation: She's the one calling the shots around here.

Often appears as call the shots.

Related

control · directing · orders · decisions · final say · power · charge · at the helm · helm · captain · running the show · dictating · running · managing · wearing the pants · dominance · executive · corner office

Categories
Opposites
authority and control

calling shotstaking orders

Acting on commands

toeing the line · deferring · kowtowing · falling in line · serving

agency and initiative

calling shotsgoing along

Moving with others

taking a back seat · asking permission

agency/autonomy

calling shotsdancing to someone's tune

Controlled by another's wishes

going along · submitting · yielding

Family

call, calls, called, caller, callers, calling, shot, shots, shoot

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Top 200,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G