asking permission

Requesting formal consent

Asking permission is requesting approval before doing something.

The phrase emphasizes the act of seeking consent rather than simply acting: Instead of just taking the last cookie, she's asking permission.

It contrasts with asking forgiveness—the calculation that it's easier to apologize afterward than to get approval beforehand.

Opposites
authorization approach

asking permissiontaking initiative

Acting without external direction

going rogue · disobeying · taking matters into one's own hands · insubordination · breaking the rules

social power dynamics

asking permissioncommanding

Exerting strong authority

forbidding · dictating · demanding · ordering · authorizing

authorization protocol

asking permissiontaking initiative

Acting without external direction

going ahead · taking liberties · breaking the rules · unauthorized action · trespassing

Family

asks, asker, asking, permit, permits, permitted, permitting, permissible, permissive

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G