Sophie's Choice

Tragic forced selection

Sophie's Choice is an impossible decision between two unbearable options, where choosing one means sacrificing the other.

The phrase comes from a novel in which a mother must choose which of her two children will be sent to death.

Any situation forcing someone to pick between equally terrible alternatives may be called a Sophie's choice: Deciding which parent to live with felt like a Sophie's choice.

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Meryl Streep · dilemma · no-win situation · life or death · Auschwitz · tragedy · mother · children · maternal love · guilt · sacrifice · Nazi · survivor · novel · literary adaptation · film · Poland · trauma

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decision difficulty

Sophie's Choiceno-brainer

Self-evident decision

slam dunk · foregone conclusion · no contest · walk in the park · path of least resistance

option quality

Sophie's Choicewin-win

Advantageous to both sides

win-win situation · best of both worlds · embarrassment of riches · spoiled for choice · champagne problems

agency and coercion

Sophie's Choicefree choice

Unrestricted decision-making power

optional · take it or leave it

Family

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Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13