restrained

Kept in check

Restrained describes something held back or kept in check.

A restrained response is measured rather than emotional.

Restrained colors are muted, not bold.

A restrained performance shows discipline and control.

The word suggests deliberate moderation—someone or something capable of more but choosing less: His grief was restrained but visible.

controlled

disciplined

Having strict self-control

tempered · checked · curbed · bridled · contained · governed · managed · suppressed · inhibited · self-controlled

subdued

muted

Made quieter or softer

low-key · soft · quiet · mellow · tempered · unobtrusive · modest · minimalist · neutral · sober

physical

bound

Secured or destined

handcuffed · pinioned · strapped · secured · immobilized · confined · held · pinned · tethered · manacled

reserved

reticent

Disinclined to speak freely

uncommunicative · private · withdrawn · undemonstrative · cool · distant · detached · tight-lipped · close-mouthed · unforthcoming

limited

bounded

Confined within limits

capped · narrowed · finite · controlled · rationed · regulated · metered · allocated · budgeted

calm

composed

Calm and self-possessed

unruffled · coolheaded · collected · poised · even-tempered · imperturbable · equanimous · steady · unflustered · level

Categories
Opposites
behavioral control

restrainedunrestrained

Not held back

wild · impulsive · uninhibited · reckless · unbridled

aesthetic style

restrainedflashy

Showy, often tastelessly so

ostentatious · gaudy · garish · flamboyant · showy

social demeanor

restrainedeffusive

Unrestrainedly emotional in expression

demonstrative · unrestrained · outgoing · extroverted · exuberant

Phrases
Family

restrain, restraint, restraining, unrestrained, restrains, self-restraint, restrainer, restraining order

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G