shoulder the burden

Bear the load

To shoulder the burden is to accept responsibility for something difficult or heavy, as one might hoist a physical load onto one's shoulders.

The phrase emphasizes willingness or obligation to bear what others cannot or will not: She shouldered the burden of caring for her aging parents.

Often implies the weight falls disproportionately on one person.

Related
  • bearLarge furry omnivore
  • backReverse side; support
  • strainExcessive stretching force
  • loadCarried weight or burden
  • heftPerceived mass, substance

accountability · obligation · fortitude · undertaking · stewardship · duty · perseverance · resilience · tough it out · soldier on · Atlas · lift · pull your weight · sacrifice · mantle · take responsibility · yoke · cross to bear

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Opposites
responsibility acceptance

shoulder the burdenpass the buck

Transfer responsibility elsewhere

shift the blame · palm off · offload · delegate · foist off

effort and action

shoulder the burdendo nothing

Remain inactive deliberately

sit back · opt out · disengage · walk away · turn a blind eye

effort and engagement

shoulder the burdensit back

Relax without participating

stand aside · coast · slack off · take the easy way out · free ride

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G