real self

Authentic inner being

The real self is the person you actually are beneath social masks and performed identities—your authentic thoughts, desires, and nature as opposed to the persona you present to others.

Psychology distinguishes it from the ideal self (who you wish to be) and the ought self (who others expect you to be): It took years of therapy to reconnect with my real self.

The concept assumes an essential core identity exists to be discovered or recovered, though some philosophies dispute this.

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Deceptive outward appearance

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Outward-facing identity presented socially

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One's self-image

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