raise the white flag

Signal giving up

To raise the white flag is to signal surrender or defeat.

The expression comes from the military practice of displaying a white flag to indicate a cease-fire or willingness to negotiate.

In everyday use, it means giving up on a struggle or admitting you cannot win: After three hours of arguing, I finally raised the white flag and let her pick the restaurant.

The phrase often carries a note of reluctant acceptance rather than outright defeat.

Related

admit defeat · surrender · give up the fight · truce · defeat · accept defeat · concede · armistice · ceasefire · yielding · throw in the towel · call it quits · succumbing · resignation · acquiescence · relinquishment · bow to · back down

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Opposites
surrender vs. resistance

raise the white flagfight on

Continue resisting or struggling

keep fighting · resist · hold the line · dig in · hold out

capitulation vs. aggression

raise the white flagdeclare war

Formally announce military action

charge · advance · open fire · counterattack · take up arms

giving up vs. perseverance

raise the white flagpersevere

Continue despite obstacles

persist · press on · keep going · carry on · hang in there

Family

raise, raised, raising, raiser, raises, white, whiten, whiteness, whitish

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G