put downs

Belittling verbal jabs

Put downs are remarks intended to belittle or humiliate someone, making them feel foolish or inferior: She's always ready with a put down when someone disagrees with her.

The term emphasizes the downward motion—lowering someone's status or self-esteem.

Also spelled as one word: putdowns.

insults

taunts

Mocking, provoking remarks

  • slursDemeaning identity-based insults
  • jabsQuick, straight punches
  • digsInformal term for home

barbs · zingers · jibes · snide remarks · cheap shots · cutting remarks · backhanded compliments · sarcasm · mockery · ridicule

dominance

bullying

Aggressive repeated intimidation

pecking order · flexing · steamrolling · browbeating · strong-arming · lording over · posturing · chest-puffing

humiliation

shaming

Causing feelings of disgrace

disgrace · public ridicule · abasement · indignity · demoralization · crushing · devastating · withering · soul-crushing

belittlement

condescension

Demeaning air of superiority

undermining · trivializing · minimizing · deprecating · deflating · brushing off · discounting · devaluing · downplaying · snubbing

Categories
Opposites
evaluative speech acts

put downscompliments

Expressions of admiration

praise · flattery · kind words · encouragement · accolades

social power dynamics

put downsempowerment

Gaining authority or confidence

affirmation · support · backing · championing · boosting

social intent

put downsencouragement

Support spurring continued effort

affirmations · validation · uplift · support · pep talks

Family

put, down, puts, putting, putter, downs, downed, downing, downer

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G