pick and choose

Select at will

To pick and choose is to select carefully from available options, often with the implication of being overly selective or fussy.

The phrase emphasizes deliberate discrimination rather than taking what's offered: You can't pick and choose which rules to follow.

Sometimes used critically to suggest someone is being too particular: She picks and chooses her assignments.

exclusion

handpick

Select individually with care

sift · sort · screen · eliminate · reject · pass over · skip · omit · exclude · narrow down

variety

assortment

Mixed collection of things

range · array · choices · possibilities · candidates · offerings · menu · spread · lineup · smorgasbord

freedom

liberty

Absence of unjust constraint

latitude · discretion · leeway · agency · empowerment · free will · self-determination · independence · volition · privilege

selectivity

selective

Choosing with care

discriminating · finicky · fastidious · meticulous · exacting · demanding · critical · judgmental · persnickety · nitpicky

preference

favorites

Most preferred choices

fondness · liking · affinity · penchant · leaning · predisposition · propensity · partiality · bent · disposition

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Opposites
selectivity

pick and choosetake it or leave it

Non-negotiable final offer

take it all · lump it · go with the flow

agency in acceptance

pick and choosemake do

Manage with insufficient resources

settle · grin and bear it · go without · scrape by · go hungry

decisiveness

pick and choosesnap up

Acquire quickly and eagerly

jump at

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G