one-upper

Always tops you

A one-upper is someone who habitually responds to others' stories or accomplishments by claiming something bigger, better, or more impressive: If you ran a 5K, the one-upper ran a marathon.

The term is always mildly derisive, suggesting competitiveness that undermines genuine conversation.

Related to the verb one-up, meaning to outdo someone.

personality

narcissist

Self-obsessed person

egotist · attention-seeker · blowhard · know-it-all · insufferable · annoying · tiresome · exhausting · insecure · overcompensating

social

conversation

Exchange of spoken ideas

workplace · meeting · dinner · holiday · family · colleague · acquaintance · coworker · friend · relative

behavior

boasting

Excessive self-praise

competing · showing off · grandstanding · trumping · eclipsing · overshadowing · outshining · dominating · upstaging · undermining

Categories
Opposites
conversational humility

one-uppergood listener

encourager · hype man · cheerleader · celebrator · booster

attentional focus

one-uppersounding board

Listener who gives feedback

good listener · confidant · validator

social generosity

one-uppercelebrator

One who honors occasions

uplifter · amplifier · complimenter · booster · team player

Family

one, upper, ones, upped, upping, uppermost, upward, upwards, upwardly

Familiarity
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Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G