manipulative

Exploiting others' emotions

Manipulative describes behavior that influences others through indirect, deceptive, or exploitative means rather than honest communication.

A manipulative person uses guilt, flattery, or emotional pressure to get what they want: She recognized his apology as manipulative—designed to make her feel guilty.

The word carries strong negative connotations, implying calculated self-interest.

Separately, manipulative can simply mean involving physical manipulation: manipulative skills in surgery.

cunning

sly

Cleverly deceptive

artful · shrewd · calculating · slick · foxy · cagey · astute · clever · strategic · Machiavellian

deceptive

deceitful

Inclined to mislead others

disingenuous · insincere · false · fraudulent · treacherous · untruthful · two-faced · lying · deception · backstabbing

control

domineering

Aggressively asserting control

domination · subjugation · exploitation · oppressive · authoritarian · tyrannical · dictatorial · autocratic · repressive · intimidation

tactical

calculated

Figured out mathematically

stratagem · gambit · machination · feint · trickery · artifice · ruse · exploitation · leverage · pressure

persuasive

silver-tongued

Persuasively articulate speaker

coaxing · enticing · ingratiating · flattering · beguiling · winning · disarming · charismatic · eloquent · glib

Categories
Opposites
interpersonal honesty

manipulativehonest

Free from deception

sincere · genuine · straightforward · transparent · forthright

social sophistication/cunning

manipulativeguileless

Free from deceit

artless · naive · ingenuous · innocent · unsophisticated

treatment of others

manipulativeempowering

Giving authority or confidence

supportive · respectful · altruistic · selfless · nurturing

Phrases
Family

manipulation, manipulating, manipulations, manipulatively, manipulatives, manipulativeness

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG