manipulating

Working someone over

Manipulating is handling or controlling something with skill, whether physical objects or abstract situations.

You might be manipulating controls, manipulating data, or manipulating public opinion.

The word often carries negative connotations—manipulating people means influencing them through cunning or deception rather than honest persuasion: She's manipulating you into feeling guilty.

physical

molding

Decorative architectural edging

bending · twisting · kneading · handling · working · maneuvering · positioning · adjusting · contorting · stretching

deceiving

misleading

Causing false beliefs

deceiving · defrauding · swindling · hoodwinking · bamboozling · gaslighting · lying · distorting · falsifying · fabricating

controlling

dominating

Exercising supreme control

managing · steering · maneuvering · pulling strings · puppeteering · masterminding · engineering · scheming · plotting · rigging

data

editing

Refining content for clarity

modifying · doctoring · tampering · falsifying · fudging · cooking · massaging · skewing · distorting · cherry-picking

persuading

influencing

Altering someone's thinking

  • swayingRhythmic lateral movement
  • coaxingPersuading through gentle persistence
  • cajolingPersuading through flattery

pressuring · nudging · sweet-talking · arm-twisting · buttering up · winning over · working on · playing on · guilt-tripping · flattering

skillful

deftly

With nimble precision

precisely · delicately · nimbly · artfully · masterfully · surgically · carefully · meticulously · intricately · fine-tuning

Categories
Opposites
honesty of influence

manipulatingbeing honest

Stating facts sincerely

leveling with · informing · telling the truth · advising · educating

agency and autonomy

manipulatingempowering

Giving authority or confidence

liberating · freeing · supporting · enabling · encouraging

physical handling

manipulatingleaving alone

Ceasing to disturb

ignoring · abandoning · neglecting · releasing · letting go

Phrases
Family

manipulation, manipulative, manipulations, manipulatively, manipulatives, manipulativeness

Familiarity
Top 20,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G