playing on

Manipulating someone's feelings

Playing on means exploiting or taking advantage of something, usually a feeling, weakness, or vulnerability: The advertisement plays on parents' fears.

It suggests manipulation—using something that already exists in the target to achieve your effect.

A con artist plays on greed; a politician plays on resentment.

The phrase can also mean continuing to play despite circumstances: The injured player kept playing on.

Related

emotional manipulation · guilt-tripping · heart strings · participating · engaging · gameplay · leveraging · acting · anxieties · pressuring · games · coaxing · vulnerabilities · maneuvering · persuasion · competing · toying · catch

Opposites
MANIPULATION vs. HONESTY

playing onleveling with

Speaking honestly to

logical argument

CONTINUATION vs. CESSATION

playing onstopping

Ceasing to continue

ceasing · quitting · halting · giving up · calling it quits

EXPLOITATION vs. RESPECT

playing onrespecting

About; on the topic

protecting · supporting · reassuring · honoring · empowering

Family

play, player, playful, playing, played, playground, players, playfully, replay

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G