pulling strings

Using hidden connections

Pulling strings is using influence or connections behind the scenes to get what you want, often bypassing normal procedures.

The image comes from puppetry—someone invisible controls the action.

She pulled some strings to get her nephew the internship.

The phrase often carries a whiff of unfairness, suggesting access others don't have.

Opposites
method of influence

pulling stringslaying cards on the table

petitioning

power and agency

pulling stringsdancing to someone's tune

Controlled by another's wishes

ethical approach

pulling stringswaiting your turn

Staying patient in sequence

paying one's dues · standing in line

Family

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