let them have it

Unleash full force

Let them have it means to attack forcefully, whether physically or verbally.

You might let someone have it with your fists or with a blistering critique: When she found out he'd lied, she really let him have it.

The phrase can also mean to give freely or generously: We had extra supplies, so we let them have it all.

Context determines whether the giving is hostile or generous.

Related

hold nothing back · retaliate · lash out · attack · bombard · rip into · permit · hand over · berate · relinquish · entrust · punish · bestow · lambaste · read the riot act · confront · offer · strike

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Opposites
verbal/physical aggression

let them have itshow mercy

Treat with leniency

hold back · pull punches · turn the other cheek · bite your tongue · coddle

emotional restraint

let them have itkeep your cool

Maintain emotional control

keep mum · grin and bear it · suffer in silence

verbal restraint

let them have ithold your tongue

Refrain from speaking

say nothing · keep quiet · mince words · tread lightly

Family

letting, them, their, theirs, themselves, have, having, haves

Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG