pull punches

Soften the blow

To pull punches is to hold back, to restrain the force of criticism or attack.

The phrase comes from boxing, where a fighter might deliberately soften a blow.

Almost always used in the negative: She doesn't pull punches when giving feedback.

Someone who pulls no punches is direct and unsparing.

restrain

hold back

Prevent forward movement

moderate · tone down · ease up · soft-pedal · cushion · blunt · dilute · understate · downplay · sugarcoat

criticize

harsh

Unpleasantly severe or rough

direct · blunt · candid · frank · unsparing · hard-hitting · savage · relentless · cutting · pointed

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Opposites
force and intensity of action

pull punchesgo for the jugular

Exploit maximum vulnerability

go all out · hold nothing back · pull no punches · hit hard · go for broke

strategic restraint versus all-out effort

pull punchesgo all in

Wager everything available

empty the tank · give 110% · leave it all on the field · escalate · go nuclear

Family

pull, pulls, pulled, pulling, puller, punch, punches, punched, punching

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G