hold your tongue

Keep it in

To hold your tongue is to refrain from speaking, especially when you're tempted to say something you shouldn't.

The phrase implies self-restraint in the face of provocation or the urge to share unwelcome opinions: I wanted to argue, but I held my tongue.

Often used as a command: Hold your tongue!

Related

quiet · reticence · button it · keep mum · tact · tight-lipped · clam up · not a word · taciturnity · silence · shut up · discretion · patience · politeness · shhh · reserve · self-control · lips

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Opposites
verbal restraint vs. expression

hold your tonguespeak up

Talk louder or opine

speak out · speak your mind · speak freely · let it out · sound off

discretion vs. indiscretion

hold your tonguespill the beans

Reveal confidential information

blab · blurt out · let the cat out of the bag · tell all · overshare

social deference vs. confrontation

hold your tonguetalk back

Respond with disrespect

answer back · speak out of turn · challenge · confront · defy

Family

hold, tongue, holder, holding, uphold, withhold, holds, behold, withholding

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G