future faking

Promising false tomorrows

Future faking is making promises about the future with no intention of keeping them, typically to manipulate someone into staying in a relationship or maintaining hope.

Common in discussions of narcissistic abuse: He kept future faking about marriage and kids to string me along.

The faker may genuinely believe their promises in the moment but consistently fails to follow through.

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broken promises · breadcrumbing · gaslighting · emotional manipulation · toxic · honeymoon phase · false hope · commitment · dream house · fantasy · betrayal · trust · red flags · hoovering · charm · idealization · discard · abuse

Opposites
sincerity of commitment

future fakinggood faith

Sincere, honest intent

true devotion · straight talk · plain dealing

relational authenticity

future fakingsecure attachment

Reliable caregiver-child emotional bond

emotional honesty · mutual respect · ethical conduct · unconditional love · vulnerability

follow-through behavior

future fakingfollow-through

Completing what you began

promise keeping · following through · walking the talk · reliability · dependability

Family

future, futures, futurism, futurist, futuristic, futuristically, futureless, fake, fakes

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Used worldwide · Abstract · Negative · Rated PG