et tu Brute

You too, friend?

Et tu, Brute is Latin for "you too, Brutus?"—the words Shakespeare gave Julius Caesar upon recognizing his friend Marcus Brutus among his assassins.

The phrase expresses shocked betrayal by someone trusted: When my own sister sided with them, I thought, et tu, Brute?

It's often used with dramatic irony for minor betrayals among friends.

Opposites
loyalty and betrayal

et tu Brutetrue friend

Genuinely loyal companion

ride or die · through thick and thin · undying loyalty · loyal companion · forgiveness

archetypal relationship dynamics

et tu BruteSamwise Gamgee

Horatio · Patroclus · Sancho Panza · Dr. Watson · loyal retainer

response to betrayal

et tu Bruteforgiveness

Releasing resentment toward offenders

absolution · reconciliation · grace · mercy · letting bygones be bygones

Family

brutal, brutality, brutally, brute, brutes, brutish, brutalize, brutalization

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Rated G