demisexual

Attraction requires connection

Demisexual describes someone who experiences sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond.

Unlike people who feel immediate physical attraction, demisexuals need connection first: I identified as demisexual after realizing I'd never been attracted to strangers.

The term emerged from online asexuality communities in the early 2000s and sits on the asexual spectrum.

identity

LGBTQ

Sexual and gender minorities

  • queerUnusual or non-normative
  • prideSatisfaction from one's achievements
  • communityCollective of connected people

visibility · acceptance · coming-out · label · self-discovery · orientation · diversity · inclusion · representation · validation

bonding

trust

Confidence in another

understanding · familiarity · companionship · intimacy · empathy · support · nurturing · safety · time · patience

spectrum

ace

Single-pip card

attraction

chemistry

Study of substances' interactions

fondness · tenderness · warmth · caring · adore · love · devotion · attachment · admiration · respect

experience

strangers

People unknown to you

Categories
Opposites
conditions for sexual attraction

demisexualallosexual

Experiencing sexual attraction

hypersexual · asexual · highly sexual · promiscuous · libertine

Family

demisexuality

Familiarity
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