come to terms with

Make peace with

Come to terms with means to accept something difficult or painful after a period of resistance or struggle.

The phrase implies a process—you don't come to terms with minor inconveniences, but with losses, limitations, or unwelcome truths: She finally came to terms with her diagnosis.

He never came to terms with his father's death.

The expression suggests making peace with what cannot be changed.

acceptance

acknowledgment

Confirmation of receipt

understanding · making peace · letting go · moving on · adjustment · adaptation · accommodation · coping · reconciliation · resignation

negotiation

agreement

Shared position between parties

accord · deal · arrangement · contract · conditions · stipulations · bargaining · concession · truce · detente

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Opposites
psychological acceptance vs. rejection

come to terms withdeny

Refuse to admit

reject · resist · bury one's head in the sand · repress · suppress

cognitive acknowledgment vs. refusal

come to terms withignore

Refuse to notice

disregard · dismiss · explain away · minimize · downplay

emotional resolution vs. ongoing turmoil

come to terms withavoid

Stay away from

evade · bury · shy away from

Family

come, with, term, coming, terms, terminal, comes, terminate, intermediate

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G