born this way

From the start

Born this way asserts that a trait—especially sexual orientation or gender identity—is innate rather than chosen: I didn't decide to be gay; I was born this way.

The phrase pushes back against the notion that being LGBTQ is a lifestyle choice or something that can be changed.

It gained wider currency after Lady Gaga's 2011 anthem of the same name.

Related

pride · gay pride · genetics · nature · Lady Gaga · anthem · DNA · inherent · queer · coming out · LGBTQ · self-acceptance · self love · destiny · wired · can't help it · hardwired · intrinsic

Categories
Opposites
origin of traits

born this waylearned behavior

Action acquired through experience

acquired · nurtured · conditioned · socialized · taught

fixedness vs. malleability

born this waychosen

Selected from alternatives

changeable · mutable · voluntary · decided · adopted

authenticity vs. construction

born this wayfaking it

Performing authenticity without possessing it

putting on an act · performing · affected · pretending · inauthentic

Family

born, bore, borne, birth, reborn, newborn, firstborn, stillborn, unborn

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G