back-stabbing

Treasonous friend behavior

Back-stabbing is betrayal by someone who pretends to be a friend or ally—the image is of attacking someone from behind while facing them with a smile.

The word works as both noun and adjective: The office was full of back-stabbing, a back-stabbing coworker.

Also spelled as one word: backstabbing.

betrayal

treachery

Deliberate violation of trust

deceit · Judas · traitor · sellout · duplicity · turncoat · snake · perfidy · breach · informer

social

frenemies

Antagonistic intimates

  • gossipInformal talk spreading rumors
  • cliqueExclusive social group
  • rumorUnconfirmed circulating story

exclusion · cattiness · drama · two-timing · snub · slander · ostracism · passive-aggressive · insincerity · fair-weather

workplace

sabotage

Deliberate disruption of operations

scheming · manipulation · rivalry · toxic · conniving · plotting · ambition · promotion · cutthroat · competition

Categories
Opposites
loyalty and trustworthiness

back-stabbingloyal

Firm in allegiance

faithful · trustworthy · devoted · steadfast · dependable

directness of conflict

back-stabbingforthright

Directly honest in manner

direct · face-to-face · upfront · confrontational · straightforward

interpersonal support

back-stabbingsupportive

Offering help and reassurance

backing · championing · advocating · standing up for · having someone's back

Family

back, stab, backbone, stabbing, backstabber, backbite, backstab, backstabbed, backstabs

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG