ask out

Request a date

To ask out is to invite someone on a date, typically a first date where romantic interest is being expressed: He finally asked her out after weeks of working up the nerve.

The phrase implies a degree of vulnerability—the person asking risks rejection.

She asked him out for coffee.

romantic

date

Specific day or outing

drinks · coffee · flirtation · attraction · crush · interest · courtship · chemistry · charm · connection

courage

nerve

Signal-carrying body fiber

confidence · bravery · pluck · audacity · mettle · chutzpah · spunk · fortitude · resolve · determination

anticipation

butterflies

Fluttering insects or nervousness

daydream · scenario · possibility · prospect · curiosity · planning · wishful · tension · jitters · sweaty palms

rejection

turn down

Reject or reduce

decline · dismiss · spurn · shot down · friendzone · awkwardness · letdown · sting · brush-off · not interested

Opposites
romantic initiation

ask outdump

Waste disposal site

call it off · leave · split up · break it off · divorce

social response

ask outturn down

Reject or reduce

reject · say no · refuse · decline · rebuff

romantic relationship initiation

ask outdump

Waste disposal site

reject · turn down · let down easy · friend-zone · ghost

Family

ask, out, asks, asked, asking, asker, outs, outed, outing

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