take personally

Take as insult

Take personally means to interpret something as a direct attack on or judgment of oneself, even when it may not have been intended that way.

Someone who takes criticism personally feels hurt or offended rather than treating it as objective feedback: Don't take it personally—she's rude to everyone.

The phrase often appears as advice not to do so: Try not to take his comments personally.

emotional-reaction

hurt

Cause or feel pain

insulted · resentful · indignant · aggrieved · bitter · stung · bruised · pained · affected · troubled

perceived-slight

insult

Offensive remark or action

  • slightMinor or thin
  • snubDeliberate dismissive rejection
  • affrontDeliberate public insult

disrespect · criticism · rejection · rebuff · dismissal · putdown · dig · barb · jab · remark

internalization

internalize

Adopt beliefs as one's own

obsess · fixate · overthink · self-blame · self-doubt · absorb · harbor · nurse · stew · mull

sensitivity

touchy

Easily upset or offended

vulnerable · insecure · self-conscious · oversensitive · fragile · tender · raw · prickly · guarded · wary

Opposites
emotional reaction to criticism or comments

take personallyshrug off

Dismiss as unimportant

brush off · let it go · rise above · water off a duck's back · turn the other cheek

attribution of intent

take personallyshrug off

Dismiss as unimportant

brush off · let go · depersonalize · rise above · compartmentalize

response style to perceived slights

take personallylaugh off

Dismiss with amusement

shake off · water off a duck's back · roll with the punches · turn the other cheek · forgive and forget

Family

take, personally, takes, taken, taking, taker, takers, retake, retakes

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G