take for a ride

Deceive with charm

To take someone for a ride is to deceive or swindle them, stringing them along with false promises: The contractor took us for a ride—pocketed the deposit and vanished.

The phrase originated in American gangster slang, where it meant to lure someone into a car to murder them.

The sinister origin lingers beneath the modern sense of being played for a fool.

Related

pull the wool over · deceive · swindle · bait and switch · cheat · double-cross · mislead · exploit · hoax · lead astray · manipulate · snake oil · shaft · scam · flimflam · pull a fast one · trick · sucker punch

Categories
Opposites
honesty/deception

take for a rideplay fair and square

Compete without deception

play it straight · level with · play by the rules · tell it like it is · lay one's cards on the table

treatment of others

take for a ridelook out for

do right by · protect · help out · have someone's back · take care of

Family

take, ride, mistake, taken, taking, mistaken, rider, overtake, takes

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG