spoon theory

Chronic fatigue metaphor

Spoon theory is a metaphor used to explain the limited energy available to people with chronic illness or disability.

In this framework, spoons represent units of energy that get depleted by everyday tasks—getting dressed might cost one spoon, cooking dinner another—and once you're out of spoons, you're done for the day.

Someone might say I don't have the spoons for that to decline an activity.

The term originated in disability communities and has spread to discussions of mental health and burnout.

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