paying the fiddler

Settling your debts

Paying the fiddler means accepting the consequences of one's actions or pleasures, especially after indulgence.

The image is of dancing to music all night, then settling the bill: We partied through our twenties, but now we're paying the fiddler.

Often appears as pay the fiddler or in the fuller form he who dances must pay the fiddler.

Related

debt · settling accounts · liability · responsibility · dues · aftermath · obligation · piper · atonement · moral debt · justice · penalty · compensation · fee · duty · restitution · reckoning · fallout

Opposites
moral accounting

paying the fiddlerwelching

Defaulting on obligations

reneging · defaulting · dining and dashing · freeloading

moral accountability

paying the fiddlerpassing the buck

Transferring responsibility to others

blaming others · making excuses · pointing fingers · scapegoating

Family

paid, payer, payers, payment, payments, payable, repaid, repaying, fiddle

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G