patty cake

Children's hand game

Patty cake (also pat-a-cake) is a simple children's clapping game where two players face each other and clap hands in alternating patterns while singing a nursery rhyme.

The name comes from the rhyme's lyrics about patting cake dough.

By extension, patty cake describes any gentle, harmless, or overly cautious interaction: They're not playing patty cake—this is serious negotiation.

game

clapping

Rhythmic palm strikes

playground · recess · children · preschool · kindergarten · toddler · friends · playdate · interaction · motor skills

rhyme

nursery rhyme

Traditional poem for young children

melody · rhythm · recitation · roll it · lyrics · Mother Goose · fingerplay · memorization · repetition · preschool

Categories
Opposites
competitiveness

patty cakegladiatorial combat

Armed fighters battling publicly

boxing · wrestling · blood sport · chess · competitive sports

intensity/roughness

patty cakebrawl

Disorderly group fight

tackle football · street fight · combat · warfare · roughhousing

complexity/skill

patty cakechess

Strategic board game

Go · bridge · advanced calculus · rocket science · brain surgery

Family

cake, pancake, cakes, cupcake, fruitcake, caked, cheesecake, caking, cakewalk

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Timeless · Concrete · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G