parlor maid

Domestic staff member

A parlor maid was a domestic servant in wealthy households, typically responsible for duties in the public rooms where guests were received.

She cleaned and maintained the parlor, drawing room, and dining room, answered the door, and served tea or refreshments to visitors.

The position ranked above housemaids who handled rougher work but below the housekeeper or lady's maid.

The term is now largely historical, associated with the era of large household staffs in Victorian and Edwardian homes.

victorian

housemaid

Live-in cleaning employee

uniform · apron · cap · downstairs · upstairs · Edwardian · manor · estate · mansion · gentry

service

uniform

Identical throughout

respectful · attentive · dutiful · discreet · invisible · punctual · curtsy · address · ma'am · sir

duties

dusting

Removing surface grime

sweeping · fires · grates · coal · linens · silverware · china · porcelain · brass · candlesticks

Categories
Opposites
domestic service hierarchy

parlor maidmaster of the house

Home's primary authority figure

scullery maid · kitchen maid · butler · employer · householder

social class/employment status

parlor maidlady of the house

Female head of household

employer · homeowner · madam · aristocrat · grande dame

served vs serving class

parlor maidlady of the house

Female head of household

mistress · master · employer · aristocrat · gentlewoman

Family

parlor, maid, parlors, parlour, parlours, maids, maiden, maidens, maidenly

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